Even though Isabelle knows how to say "hola" and "adios", it was decided that with the "swine flu" taking over we had best reroute the Ilich and Owston families somewhere other than Mexico for our family vacation at the end of May.
Looking through our timeshare catalog, Mom brought up Kauai and as you can imagine...we jumped all over it! We now have 2 one bedroom studios booked at the Kauai Marriott Resort and Beach Club! YAY! Mahalo Mom and Dad, we can't wait! Now we just have to teach Isabelle how to say "Aloha" and "Mahalo" :)
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Adios Puerto Vallarta, Aloha Kauai!
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Monday, April 20, 2009
Oh No, Nightmares
Not sure when they start or if she is having them but for the last few nights in a row, Isabelle has been waking up in the middle of the night crying. It's like she is a newborn again...rushing to her rescue at any noise she makes. We tried consoling her in her room (boy do I miss the rocker) but when that didn't it, and against our rules, we pulled her into bed with us. That got old really quick; she thought it was time to play. Michael and I would both have our back to her with her right between us and she would always manage to find our eyes or nose and poke at them. She has even yelled "wake up!" So back to bed we would take her with a sippy cup of milk, turn on her music and kiss her good night once again. We did find out about 4 nightmares later that if we just leave her be, she will go back to sleep on her own.
Isabelle playing with her Darth Tator
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Monday, April 13, 2009
Our Lil Soccer Player
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Wednesday, April 01, 2009
Birthday Celebration #3-THE END
8:30am came around very quickly as we were woken up by a pone cal from the bounce house company….all we thought was “they were here to set up Isabelle’s Birthday Cake Jumper already?” OK, let the day begin.
Kyle and Lindalee
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Saturday, March 28, 2009
2nd Birthday Celebration Day #2
Today is Isabelle’s actual birthday and to celebrate, we had Grandmama, Poppy an Nana over for lunch. Poppy was off onto another business trip the following morning and Nana wouldn’t quite want to be at her birthday celebration we had planned the following day with all of her friends…all under the age of 7 :)Poppy/Dad picked up lunch from one of our favorite restaurants and Grandmama picked up Nana and also what will be known as the birthday weekend buzz kill…the Froggy Cake!
After everyone got to our house an a little catching up, we had lunch which led to singing “Happy Birthday” to Isabelle. I went into the kitchen, got the Froggy Cake ready, lit a “2” candle ad began to sing “Happy Birthday” to her and between the singing, staring, lit candle and the bug eyed Froggy Cake, our little birthday girl lost it. She started crying and clung to my arm for dear life. The pictures below tell the whole story.
She wanted absolutely nothing to do with the cake…completely traumatized! As we got rid of her birthday cake and brought out tiramisu and chocolate cake that we got for the adults, I packed up “Froggy” for Nana to take home to share with her friends when they came over to play bridge at her house that Tuesday.
Opening one of the many gifts from Grandmama and PoppyWe enjoyed the rest of the celebration opening gifts and then Isabelle was off for a well deserved nap which was also time for Mom and Dad to prepare for her Birthday Celebration #3. Party bags to fill, 4 dozen cupcakes to bake (which reminds me that I need to invest in another muffin pan J) and Michael out to finish painting the garage.
Opening her Dora Magnadoodle from NanaPlaying with Legos that Tia Tara and Scott got her.
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Friday, March 27, 2009
2nd Birthday Celebration Day #1
Thursday night while little Miss was sound asleep, the cupcake angels (aka: Mom and Dad) flew into our kitchen and baked and frosted 24 cupcakes (with reduced sugar frosting-hehe) for our soon to be 2 year old to bring to school and share with all of her friends.
Izzy and all of her afternoon time friends.
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Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Oink!
When Scott and Tara came down for Opening Night of Cuckoo's Nest, they also brought with them gifts for "Macho". Maracas and a flute from their trip to Mexico and also a super soft, pink pig puppet-say that five times fast! I caught Isabelle playing with her oinker the other day in the car and just had to share (you may have to turn up your volume).
We are also very excited about something else (no I am not pregnant)...Isabelle's friend Lexi started preschool in Isabelle's class this past Tuesday. Look out Ms. Holly and Ms. Amanda!
Lexi's first day of preschool...thumbs up!
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Friday, March 20, 2009
Did You Just Tell Me...NO?
And so it begins...
I was in Florida for 5 days (I left Saturday after opening night of One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, that Michael had the lead role in and is fantastic in) and when I got home yesterday it seemed like my little baby girl grew up even more...more defiant that is. Everyone talks about the "terrible two's" and the fact you will know it when it comes and by George, do you! Isabelle tried out both Michael's and Grandmama's patience while I was gone with the use of her new favorite word, "NO".
Scott, Tia Tara, Dad/Poppy, Mom and Isabelle at Opening Night of Papa's show "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest"While I was gone for those 5 days Michael and Grandmama shared Isabelle Watch (along with one night of assistance from Tia Tara and Scott). Mom actually had Isabelle spend the night at her house on Saturday night (the first sleep over, if you can believe that) since Michael had a show that night then had to be at the theatre Sunday morning to clean and get ready for the matinee.
On Saturday, Grandmama, Isabelle, Tia and Scott had a great time playing with bubbles and her bike in the backyard at Grandmama's and Scott cooked dinner for the four of them (which I heard was awesome). After dinner he and Tara headed off to the movies while Grandmama and Izzy had some alone time however, the first of the "No's" for Grandmama started while eating dinner. Easy scenario: Grandmama tells Isabelle to finish her dinner so she can go play, Isabelle says no. She asks again, Isabelle responds no again but this time decides to throw some of her dinner onto the floor. Sam, my folks dog, liked it but Grandmama wasn't too pleased.
Scott playing with bubbles :)Potty time was also a hit and miss for her while at Grandmama's, even with the new potty chair she bought Isabelle. Isabelle was excited and pee-pee'd in it the first few times after Mom brought it out but then wanted nothing to do with it. Mom tried and tried and all Isabelle kept telling her was...you guessed it, "No". Finally the day got to her and Isabelle went to bed however at about 2am Mom heard her wrestling around and went to check on her; Isabelle stood up, asked for Sam then Mom told her "Sam is asleep and you need to go to sleep too" and with that, Isabelle laid back down and was out like a light till almost 9am.


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Friday, March 06, 2009
Two weeks down...the preschool update!
It has officially been 2 weeks with Isabelle at her new preschool and what an emotional roller coaster ride that has been! We have had everything from the extreme meltdowns when walking into the school, smaller crying fits when we leave or come pick her up and even having Isabelle saying "NO" as we pull into the parking lot of the school! Then we have the opposite extreme; Isabelle marching into the school like she owns the place and crying a little bit (for show) when Michael leaves. Or when I come to pick her up, I watch her from her classroom window as she is playing outside with her friends in the cars, on the slide, etc. and then the moment she sees me....tears come pouring down her face. Yesterday I told her to stop and that she was fine, which made her "show" stop instantly.
One of her teachers told us last Friday (as Isabelle was attached to her hip, literally, all day) that it would take time for her to adjust, as it does with most children, and she will be fine. Even though we know this already, its always nice to hear once again that it is something that all kids and parents :) go through and everyone survives.
Playing at MyGym at Sophia and Paul's Birthday Party.The first week there, Isabelle got very attached to Ms. Amanda; sitting in her lap, wanting to be held by her, Ms. Amanda got her to sleep at nap time, calmed her down when she would start crying and Isabelle would hold her finger (for dear life) when they were out in the yard. She was Ms. Amanda's shadow and luckily, Ms. Amanda didn't mind much :)

Me: "What did you do at school today?"
Isabelle: "Cried."
Me: "Why were you crying?"
Isabelle is a soft little voice: "Sad."
OK...did that just break your heart? Because it did mine when she told me that!

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Wednesday, February 25, 2009
The First day...
To Michael's chagrin, it was decided that he would drop Isabelle off at school and I would be picking her up (yes, I get to be the "savior") just like we did when she was at Lisa's. Although everything in me wanted to be there for my baby's first day at her new preschool, I felt very strongly about keeping things consistent and again, since Michael had been the one dropping off Isabelle at her other daycare for the past year, I felt that we should continue it that way. She was never dropped off by both of us and with a new school and environment I didn't want her to think that both Mom and Dad were abandoning her. So I sat in my office crying on and off from 7:30am (knowing that Michael's alarm was going off to get her up and ready) until 8:45am when I got the call from Michael that he just left her. However, that phone call from him turned on the waterworks full blast. Here is how the conversation went: I picked up the phone and Michael was silent on the other end and I asked how did she do...still silence. Then he said between teary sobs, "It's not fair...I don't ever want to do that again. You are dropping her off on Thursday." Trying to keep myself composed, I asked what happened? Did she cry? How was everything? Did they have a cubby ready for her? Plus about 10 million other questions. He told me that she walked in fine, started to look around and play a little bit then when he said, "OK, its time for Papa to go. Come give me a hug good-bye.". As he was saying that tears came streaming down her face and she clung to him like glue! He held her tight, not wanting to let her go either. Finally, with tears in his eyes and her bawling, one of her teachers (Ms. Holly) pried HIS arms off of her and took her from him. He said he left and went and sat in the car trying to get it together and watching her through the 2 year old room window where he could see her run off to play with another child. That was it...forgotten in 2 minutes.

Isabelle's "Letter Art"...she had glue stuck in her eyebrows! LOL!

We both went about our day trying not to think about it but I will have to say, 4:00 couldn't come around any slower!!! At 3:30 I said forget it and left work with Grandmama to go and get her. Michael was going to meet us over there so he wouldn't be portrayed as the "bad guy" who dropped her off and left her at this new place. Mom and I were sitting in the office waiting for Michael and talking to my friend Gretchen, who also happens to be the assistant director, when all of a sudden we hear a crying kid and the door opens with Ms. Amanda (Izzy's other teacher) holding our little one, apologizing to us and Gretchen as she grabs some tissue and not realizing it was me sitting there, saying that when she went to leave the room for a second, Isabelle started crying so she went ahead and just took her with her. Although I wanted Michael to be the one that she would first see coming to get her and even though in her frenzy of tears she didn't realize it was Mom and I sitting there, I couldn't let her cry so I said, "Monkey? What is wrong?". Instantly her eyes lit up, her arms stretched out to me as she tearfully said, "Mom!". I took her from Ms. Amanda and held her tight. It was funny, I had the same exact feeling as I did when she was just born and the nurse handed her to me to hold for the first time...I was in love all over again! I teared up (again) and then started talking to her and Ms. Amanda about her day. Not 2 minutes after that, Michael walked in. Isabelle saw him and went over to give him a big hug hi and I caught a glimpse of tears in the eyes of our "solid as a rock" Dad. We all went to her room and heard more about her day. She didn't nap but ate all of her lunch (spaghetti, salad and milk) and even pee-pee'd on the potty! YAY!
Phewwww! What an emotional day but hopefully Thursday will be better :)
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Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Today is the day...
Sitting here at work wondering how our little one is doing right now at her new preschool? Is she crying? I know her Mom is. Is she getting along with the other kids? Do her teachers like her? Is she going to eat the food they provide her? All of these questions are going through my head and I just keep telling myself not to call and be "that parent". Seriously, I just have to do what I have told all ALL of the parents that came through my preschool days when I worked at Stepping Stones, Pinecrest and even way back when I worked at the YMCA, "It is worse off for the parents then it is for the child." OK...here I go, practicing what I preach and knowing it will be fine.
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Monday, February 23, 2009
EVERYONE POOPS
An excerpt from one of Isabelle's favorite "potty books"...wait, it IS Isabelle's favorite "potty book", Everyone Poops.
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Thursday, February 12, 2009
Losing Lisa
Since she was 10 1/2 months old, every Tuesday, Thursday and Friday afternoon Isabelle goes to a place where she knows familiar faces, has the same routine and plays with the same friends but this past Tuesday....it all changed.
Michael playing with a new application on his iPhone As some of you may have read on my Facebook page, we are going to be transitioning to a new daycare sooner than we had planned. On Tuesday when I went to pick up Isabelle from daycare, Lisa opened the door her normal, happy, cheerful self (I swear she never has a bad day-I am jealous!) but as I walked into the kitchen I see Mark, little Riley's Dad, sitting on the couch and then Lisa proceeded to say, "I have something to tell you guys. We have some news...". Now the statement "we have some news" to me over the past 3 years, and especially knowing that Lisa is married and has been trying to get pregnant for a year, means "Hey, guess what...we have a bun in the oven!". And even looking at Lisa's Mom, Barbie, who said, "I am not going to cry" made me get butterflies in my stomach from the sheer excitement for them . Well, that was not the case this time around. Lisa then proceeds to tell Mark and I that Jeff (her hubby) got a new job and there is going to be a commute. So still thinking, OK a little adjustment but nothing big... it will still work. She continues to say, "We are moving to Florida on February 2oth for Jeff's new job". As I am standing their trying to process what she just said, Lisa then proceeds to tell us about what happened that past weekend; how they were in Ft. Lauderdale for the interview, Jeff was offered the job right then and there and that she won't have to work. At first I didn't know whether to jump up and down with excitement for them since she won't have to work, can concentrate on starting their own family and the fact that Jeff has been looking for a job for months now and finally has one, or to cry because Isabelle is losing her "Yeesah". One look at Barbie and I lost it. So now the search begins. All we know is that no one is going to replace Lisa.
Being a "diva" at the theatreEarlier this week, we have taken tours of several local "in home day cares" and actual preschools and have pretty much narrowed it down to Tutor Time in Stevenson Ranch. We felt so welcome and comfortable there...unlike one preschool we visited who's director left a child in the office (who was brought in as a punishment while we were there) while she took us for a tour of the school...RED FLAGS thrown right then and there! And their teachers who would have Isabelle within a few months, as Michael so eloquently put it, look and talk like they frequent an old SCV dive bar called Doc's Inn, every night. At Tutor Time, although licensed for a 1 to 12 teacher to child ratio, have a maximum of 1 to 8 with an aide. When we stopped in, besides the room being HUGE, there were 2 teachers and an aide and 15 kids...we really liked that. We have one more preschool to visit that is 2 streets down from my work (and is $40 a week cheaper than Tutor Time) and then its decision making time since February 20th is going to come sooner than we think!
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Monday, January 19, 2009
A-B-C's and other musings
This Christmas brought Isabelle a lot of new toys and games to play with but she always seems to return to her singing, magnetic phonic/letters from Leapfrog. She had originally gotten a set for her 1st birthday however we returned them since they wouldn't stick on our stainless steel fridge. Then one day after our neighbor's 6 year old daughter Sophia gave us her set, I had a brainstorm...we have a metal fire door going out to our garage! So not only is Isabelle out of our way in our already not so roomy kitchen, she is always in plain view from the kitchen, dining room and living room! We have had "her letters" up for a few months now and she also has the "Letter Factory" DVD by Leapfrog (thanks for the suggestion, Caryn) that incorporates the same songs/phonetic sounds that the magnetic letters make along with teaching a few words that start with that letter.
Look at "my letters" Within the past month, Isabelle recognizes and says the sounds for the letters A, F, I, K, M, O, P, S (but sometimes gets it confused with Z), U, V, X and Z. Now she may not get them all the time but when asked, 9 out of 10 times these are the ones she usually knows. Then there are the letters B, E, H, J, R, T and W which she knows the sounds for but not the name of the letter itself. Besides the magnetic letters, Isabelle also has foam letters that she plays with in the bath (thank you Jackie and Randy)...GO L-E-T-T-E-R-S!
Isabell, like any other child, LOVES playing at the park and with Michael at home with her in the mornings, she gets to go 3-4 days a week. They take Bear for a walk up in the hills behind our place and head back home going past the park where he will stop and let her play. Michael is still trying to talk me into letting her go down the big, twisty, covered slide by herself...maybe for her 2nd birthday, while I am not looking :)
Being outside now a day in California also has its downfalls....our wonderful Santa Ana winds that you all read/hear about. I am sure you can imagine what all gets kicked up while we are outside playing? YUCK! Luckily, I am the only one in the family with allergies however Isabelle does get affected every now and then which had forced her to learn how to blow her nose. Yes, I had to note this in her blog since it is pretty dang exciting for us. You say "blow" and Isabelle blows those "boogies" of hers right into the tissue! Hopefully teaching her this so early will incline her to reach for a tissue and not resort to her finger...ewwww!
Isabelle also has a new favorite ritual that started with her Papa around the beginning of December. She loves having all of her stuffed animals (OK not all, but a good number of them) in her crib with her when it is nap time or time for bed and when she lays down for nap or bedtime, she has to give "good night kisses" to each one. But the funniest part of this ritual has to be when she is not tired when 8:30pm rolls around and you listen at the door or go grab the monitor, you will see/hear her playing with her Elmo and Cookie Monster puppets, having them kiss all of the other stuffed animals "good night"! That is our little love bug!

And on that note...Good Night!
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